the resilient man - a coaching experience

Has divorce left you feeling confused and uncertain about your future? Are you still processing emotions brought on by your loss? Are you telling your friends that “everything is fine” when it isn’t?
Divorce doesn’t define you. It's an opportunity to learn, grow, and strive to be the man you were created to be. Some men default to anger, revenge, and being spiritually broken. This results in prolonged misery and delusion.
The Resilient Man coaching experience is the answer. This is your choice to declare what you want in life in a supportive, confidential environment. You will feel freedom by revealing your emotions, learning better communication skills, aligning with your values, and prioritizing what is important in this new season of life.
Heal first, then flourish. Divorce is not who you are!
Divorced men feel rejected and experience low self-esteem. You default into survival mode to navigate the emotions. In the worst cases, you numb your emotions with unhealthy behaviors.
This is the opposite of feeling “free,” it’s more like a self-made prison. Only those committed to elevating their quality of lives are permitted in this program. It’s outcome focused, not day-to-day survival. You will take this opportunity to express the vision you have for your “new” life, and learn the steps along the way to get there. You will develop a mindset and behaviors unlike the ones that led to divorce.
My divorce began in late 2013 and had final resolution in February 2015. It was unexpected, frustrating, scary, and unpredictable. I got an education not available at Harvard. I invested in therapy. I regret not having “guy-accountability” conversations. I promise to help men become resilient through one of life’s demeaning hardships.
Tough-love: I will help you succeed in this program if you are honest with yourself.
You will create your best life after divorce by communicating consistently and being accountable to a coach. You choose to be proactive versus reactive. You choose to be positive versus negative. Here are outcomes you will experience;
Gain clarity on what has happened, and that it happened “for you”, not to you.
Feel the relief of being heard, and understood with no judgment.
Build a set of beliefs, and vocabulary that is positive and inspiring. The future looks bright.
Have a safe space to ask the hard questions (and get hard answers).
Know exactly what to be focusing your energy on in the next 30 days.
Prioritize healthy living. Treat yourself with respect.
Learn to slow down. “Hustle culture” destroys lives and focuses on the wrong things.
Surround yourself with people excited about who you are becoming. w
Reclaim your time and live the life you’ve always dreamed of.
3 months of mentorship with coach, Michael Lynch
Upfront call to gain clarity on where client is at the moment, and set expectations for the next 90 days. Determine areas to prioritize; family, finances, health, career or something else.
Two private coaching calls per month, 90 minute, laser-focused strategy calls with Michael to discuss challenges in the moment, clarify priorities, and support your vision. Each call will have clear goals and measurable outcomes.
Ongoing communication via Voxer app. Daily communication available for work being done between meetings.
Normally men spend years learning
how to rebuild their lives after divorce. No more!

I created The Resilient Man coaching experience after living through the trauma of divorce. I lost my Mom and dear Aunt Pat while the process dragged on, two of the most influential people in my life. In spite of their loss, nothing equaled the pain and abandonment of divorce.
Since then I have watched men and women aimlessly drifting post divorce with no idea what happened or what to do next. Some choose to re-enter the dating pool only to duplicate previous failed behaviors. Others are so jaded they hate the opposite sex, or curse the institution of marriage. I will not support these beliefs.
I am excited to work with men who have high standards, and a desire to create a beautiful life. I will not sugarcoat the circumstances surrounding divorce, which can be ugly. Divorce is not a death sentence. It’s an opportunity to emerge as the man you were created to be.


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